MomElsa, can you look at this photo?
Family Pressure to Get Married
A2DialogueMarriage, family pressure and a new friendConversation 1: The Blind DateConversation 2: The Family PressureConversation 3: A Chance MeetingTap the video once, then ▶
- Conversation 1: The Blind Date
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- 2ElsaWhat is it, Mom?
- 3MomHe is Mrs. Smith's son.
- 4ElsaOh, no. Not again.
- 5MomHe is 32 and very successful.
- 6ElsaI am not interested, Mom.
- 7MomBut you didn't even look at him.
- 8ElsaI don't want a blind date.
- 9MomYou are 30 years old, Elsa.
- 10ElsaI know exactly how old I am.
- 11MomMost of your friends are married.
- 12ElsaThat is their life, not mine.
- 13MomI just want you to be happy.
- 14ElsaI am happy right now.
- 15MomYou need a good man to take care of you.
- 16ElsaI can take care of myself.
- 17MomIt is too lonely to live alone.
- 18ElsaI have a great job and good friends.
- 19MomBut you come home to an empty room.
- 20ElsaI like the quiet.
- 21MomJust meet him for one coffee.
- 22ElsaPlease, Mom, stop pushing me.
- 23MomI am just trying to help.
- 24ElsaThis does not help me. It stresses me out.
- 25MomWhy are you so stubborn?
- 26ElsaBecause I want to find love naturally.
- 27MomNatural love takes too much time.
- 28ElsaI don't care how long it takes.
- 29MomYou will be too old soon.
- 30Elsa30 is not old, Mom.
- 31MomJust one dinner. Please do it for me.
- 32ElsaNo. My answer is no.
- 33MomYou make me very sad.
- 34ElsaAnd you make me very tired.
- 35MomI will leave the photo on the table.
- 36ElsaI will just throw it away.
- 37MomThink about it, please.
- 38ElsaI need to go to my room now.
- 39MomWe will talk about this later.
- 40ElsaThere is nothing to talk about.
- Conversation 2: The Family Pressure
- 41DadElsa, your mother is upset.
- 42ElsaI know she is.
- 43DadShe just worries about your future.
- 44ElsaI wish she would stop worrying.
- 45DadWe both want you to have a family.
- 46ElsaA family is a big responsibility.
- 47DadYes, but it is a beautiful thing.
- 48ElsaI am not ready for marriage, Dad.
- 49DadWhen will you be ready?
- 50ElsaI don't know. Maybe never.
- 51DadDon't say that, sweetie.
- 52ElsaI'm just being honest.
- 53DadA woman should have a husband and children.
- 54ElsaThat is an old way of thinking.
- 55DadIt is the natural way of life.
- 56ElsaEveryone's life is different, Dad.
- 57DadDon't you want to hear a child call you Mom?
- 58ElsaMaybe one day, but not today.
- 59DadYour mother and I are getting older.
- 60ElsaI know. I can see that.
- 61DadWe want to see our grandchildren.
- 62ElsaThat is too much pressure for me.
- 63DadIt is not pressure. It is love.
- 64ElsaIt feels like a heavy burden.
- 65DadWe just want the best for you.
- 66ElsaBut what if the best is staying single?
- 67DadYou will regret it when you are 50.
- 68ElsaI will take that risk.
- 69DadWhy is it so hard to talk to you?
- 70ElsaBecause you don't listen to my feelings.
- 71DadWe listen, but we have more life experience.
- 72ElsaThis is my life. Let me live it.
- 73DadWe're running out of time, Elsa.
- 74ElsaI need some air. I'm going for a walk.
- 75DadWhere are you going?
- 76ElsaJust to the park. I need to be alone.
- 77DadDon't stay out too late.
- 78ElsaI will be back later.
- 79DadPlease think about what I said.
- 80ElsaI will. Goodbye, Dad.
- Conversation 3: A Chance Meeting
- 81LeoExcuse me. Is this seat taken?
- 82ElsaNo, you can sit here.
- 83LeoThank you. It is a beautiful evening.
- 84ElsaYes, it is very nice.
- 85LeoI noticed you were sitting here alone.
- 86ElsaI just needed some quiet time.
- 87LeoAre you okay? You look a bit sad.
- 88ElsaI am fine. Just a long day.
- 89LeoSometimes a long walk helps clear the mind.
- 90ElsaThat is why I am here.
- 91LeoFamily problems or work problems?
- 92ElsaA little bit of family pressure.
- 93LeoAh, I understand. Families can be difficult sometimes.
- 94ElsaThey want me to get married, but I don't want to.
- 95LeoMarriage is a very big step.
- 96ElsaExactly. But they think I am running out of time.
- 97LeoThere is no time limit on finding the right person.
- 98ElsaThat is exactly what I told them.
- 99LeoSome people find love at 20, some at 40.
- 100ElsaIt is hard when everyone judges you.
- 101LeoYou should live life at your own pace.
- 102ElsaThank you. I really needed to hear that today.
- 103LeoI'm Leo, by the way.
- 104ElsaI'm Elsa. Nice to meet you, Leo.
- 105LeoNice to meet you, too, Elsa.
- 106ElsaYou are a very good listener.
- 107LeoI just think people should follow their own hearts.
- 108ElsaIt is better to wait for real love.
- 109LeoYes, rushing into marriage is a bad idea.
- 110ElsaMy parents just want to see grandchildren.
- 111LeoThey mean well, but it's your choice.
- 112ElsaI feel much better after talking to you.
- 113LeoI am glad I could help a little.
- 114ElsaIt's nice to talk to a stranger sometimes.
- 115LeoWell, if you ever need to talk, I come to this park often.
- 116ElsaWhat time do you usually come?
- 117LeoUsually around 6:00 with my coffee.
- 118ElsaMaybe I will see you here again.
- 119LeoI would really like that, Elsa.
- 120ElsaHave a good evening, Leo.
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