SarahMia, are you home?
Roommate Conflict
A2DialogueSharing a home, chores and house rulesConversation 1: The Messy KitchenConversation 2: The Cleaning ScheduleConversation 3: New House RulesTap the video once, then ▶
- Conversation 1: The Messy Kitchen
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- 2MiaYes, I am in the living room.
- 3SarahI just got back from work.
- 4MiaWelcome home. How was your day?
- 5SarahMy day was fine, but look at this kitchen.
- 6MiaOh, I made some pasta earlier.
- 7SarahThere are dirty dishes everywhere.
- 8MiaI know. I will wash them later.
- 9SarahYou always say 'later', Mia.
- 10MiaI am watching my favorite show right now.
- 11SarahThe trash can is completely full, too.
- 12MiaOh, I didn't notice that.
- 13SarahIt smells very bad in here.
- 14MiaReally? I don't smell anything.
- 15SarahWhose turn is it to take out the trash?
- 16MiaI think it is my turn.
- 17SarahYes, it is. Since Tuesday.
- 18MiaI am sorry. I forgot about it.
- 19SarahI am very tired, Mia.
- 20MiaJust leave the dishes. I will do them.
- 21SarahI cannot cook dinner in this mess.
- 22MiaYou can order a pizza tonight.
- 23SarahI don't want to spend money on pizza.
- 24MiaOkay, I will clean the kitchen now.
- 25SarahPlease do it. I need a clean space.
- 26MiaGive me five more minutes, please.
- 27SarahNo, Mia, you need to do it right now.
- 28MiaWhy are you so angry?
- 29SarahBecause I clean this apartment every single day.
- 30MiaThat is not true, Sarah.
- 31SarahYes, it is true. I swept the floor this morning.
- 32MiaI cleaned the bathroom last week.
- 33SarahLast week? That was 10 days ago.
- 34MiaOkay. Okay. I am standing up.
- 35SarahThank you. Please take out the trash first.
- 36MiaFine. Where are the trash bags?
- 37SarahThey are under the sink.
- 38MiaI found them. I'm taking it out now.
- 39SarahI appreciate it. I will wait in my room.
- 40MiaI will be quick.
- Conversation 2: The Cleaning Schedule
- 41SarahMia, can we talk for a minute?
- 42MiaSure. I finished cleaning the kitchen.
- 43SarahThank you. It looks much better.
- 44MiaWhat do you want to talk about?
- 45SarahWe need to talk about our cleaning schedule.
- 46MiaI thought we had a schedule.
- 47SarahWe do, but it is not working.
- 48MiaWhy is it not working?
- 49SarahBecause you do not follow the schedule.
- 50MiaI try my best, Sarah.
- 51SarahI do 80% of the housework.
- 52MiaI am a college student. I'm busy.
- 53SarahI have a full-time job. I am busy, too.
- 54MiaBut I have big exams this week.
- 55SarahYou still need to clean up your own mess.
- 56MiaI said I was sorry about the dishes.
- 57SarahIt is not just the dishes.
- 58MiaWhat else did I do?
- 59SarahYour clothes are all over the sofa.
- 60MiaI left my jacket there yesterday.
- 61SarahAnd your shoes are blocking the door.
- 62MiaOkay, I will put my shoes away.
- 63SarahLiving together is teamwork, Mia.
- 64MiaI know. You're right.
- 65SarahI feel like your mother sometimes.
- 66MiaPlease don't say that.
- 67SarahThen you need to act like an adult.
- 68MiaI am an adult. I just forget things.
- 69SarahWhen the house is messy, I feel stressed.
- 70MiaI don't want you to feel stressed.
- 71SarahThen we must share the chores equally, Mia.
- 72Mia50-50. Half and half.
- 73SarahYes, that is fair.
- 74MiaHow do we fix this problem?
- 75SarahWe need a new rule.
- 76MiaWhat kind of rule?
- 77SarahA very simple and clear rule.
- 78MiaOkay, tell me your idea.
- 79SarahWe write everything down on a paper.
- 80MiaThat sounds like a good start.
- Conversation 3: New House Rules
- 81SarahLet's make a new cleaning list.
- 82MiaOkay, I will get a pen and paper.
- 83SarahFirst rule, wash your own dishes.
- 84MiaWash them immediately after eating.
- 85SarahYes, no more dirty dishes in the sink.
- 86MiaI agree. That is a good rule.
- 87SarahSecond rule, the living room.
- 88MiaWe must keep our personal things in our bedrooms.
- 89SarahExactly. No clothes or shoes on the sofa.
- 90MiaGot it. I will keep my things in my room.
- 91SarahWhat about the bathroom?
- 92MiaWe can take turns cleaning it.
- 93SarahI will clean it this weekend.
- 94MiaAnd I will clean it next weekend.
- 95SarahPerfect. Now, the trash.
- 96MiaI will take out the trash every Tuesday and Friday.
- 97SarahAnd I will take it out on Sunday.
- 98MiaThat sounds very fair to me.
- 99SarahI will stick this list on the fridge so we can see it every day.
- 100MiaYes, it will help us remember.
- 101MiaSarah, I am sorry for being lazy.
- 102SarahThank you for saying that, Mia.
- 103MiaI want to be a good roommate.
- 104SarahYou are a good roommate, just a little messy.
- 105MiaI will change. I promise.
- 106SarahI'm glad we talked about this.
- 107MiaMe, too. I hate fighting with you.
- 108SarahI hate it, too. We are friends first.
- 109MiaFriends and roommates.
- 110SarahNow, are you ready for dinner?
- 111MiaYes, I am very hungry.
- 112SarahLet's cook some chicken and rice.
- 113MiaI will help you cut the vegetables.
- 114SarahAnd who will wash the dishes tonight?
- 115MiaWe will wash them together.
- 116SarahThat is the perfect answer.
- 117MiaLet's go to the clean kitchen.
- 118SarahAfter you, my friend.
- 119MiaThank you!
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